The gay village here in Toronto is having a street fest so I'm heading down there with some friends. I just bought a sexy cat mask. I'll try to post pics on Thursday. Meow!!!
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Trick or Treat anyone?
by lovelylil inis there anyone on the board who is celebrating halloween for the first time this year?.
this is my 2nd halloween i am doing since leaving the borg (almost 4 years ago now), but it is the first time i am decorating the outside of my home as well as giving out candy.
i hope some jdubs come by and work my street during the halloween season.
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Saw best jw friend at club...didn't shun me
by tall penguin inback in may i went to a nightclub and ended up seeing one my best jw friends, a friend who refused to say goodbye when i was in the process of disassociating because he was so upset with me.
we'd known each other since we were kids.
our moms were close.
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tall penguin
"No matter what he's up to, I hope it turns out all right for him."
Me too. This club event is a monthly thing. Perhaps we'll meet again and continue our conversation. One can only hope.
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Saw best jw friend at club...didn't shun me
by tall penguin inback in may i went to a nightclub and ended up seeing one my best jw friends, a friend who refused to say goodbye when i was in the process of disassociating because he was so upset with me.
we'd known each other since we were kids.
our moms were close.
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tall penguin
Thanks dawg. Good luck to you as well.
"Oh dear, drinking too? Drinking and prescription drugs are the "ok" drugs if you are a JW. But, the effect is the same as the "bad" stuff."
Ya, I know that alcohol is the drug of choice for many a jw. But my friend really wasn't a drinker and in fact it seemed odd to witness that behavior in him. Not sure what is going on. He felt it wasn't a coincidence that we've run into each other twice now, so maybe he'll contact me.
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Saw best jw friend at club...didn't shun me
by tall penguin inback in may i went to a nightclub and ended up seeing one my best jw friends, a friend who refused to say goodbye when i was in the process of disassociating because he was so upset with me.
we'd known each other since we were kids.
our moms were close.
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tall penguin
"Tall Pengiun, if it's happened once...we know it's happened twice. Since this has happened twice, I "bet" it's this guy's modus operandi to go out to clubs when his wife is out of town. Perhaps she's a frigid JW wife? Or, she's too involved with the pilots & the mile high club to "render her marital due.""
I know he was a bit of a player before he got hitched. Perhaps not much has changed. I was actually quite surprised to see him that drunk. I don't recall him being a big drinker before. So, who knows what's been happening with him over the past two years. Hey, maybe my leaving was a wake-up call. One can only hope.
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Saw best jw friend at club...didn't shun me
by tall penguin inback in may i went to a nightclub and ended up seeing one my best jw friends, a friend who refused to say goodbye when i was in the process of disassociating because he was so upset with me.
we'd known each other since we were kids.
our moms were close.
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tall penguin
"This is very curious. Who was he dancing with? She obviously wasn't his wife. Was it the same person both times you saw him?"
He was dancing with a mixed group of people. It all did seem a bit odd. But who's to know really? Maybe he will indeed be out soon. I'd like that. I really missed our friendship.
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Saw best jw friend at club...didn't shun me
by tall penguin inback in may i went to a nightclub and ended up seeing one my best jw friends, a friend who refused to say goodbye when i was in the process of disassociating because he was so upset with me.
we'd known each other since we were kids.
our moms were close.
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tall penguin
"So where was his wife while all this hugging was going on??
This sounds like someone who is soon to be an ex-JW minus a wife."
Funny you should mention that. His wife is a flight attendant and is often out of town. My friend was very quick to mention to me that they're still together and doing well, even though she's not been with him the two times we met. LOL
I'd like to see him be an ex-jw, but with wife. They'd both be better off out.
"Wow, I dont remember JW's being allowed to go to night clubs back in the 80's and 90's, is this now considered "OK"?"
I doubt it's OK. In fact, I had to laugh because the group of them were pretty bombed, and dancing to Prince's "Erotic City" I might add (that song was on the ban list for jw parties here...you'd get your ass hauled into an elder's meeting if you got caught playing it let alone dancing to it). I can only surmise that more and more of the younger generation are living on the fringes of dubdom. Let's hope some of them spill over the side.
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Saw best jw friend at club...didn't shun me
by tall penguin inback in may i went to a nightclub and ended up seeing one my best jw friends, a friend who refused to say goodbye when i was in the process of disassociating because he was so upset with me.
we'd known each other since we were kids.
our moms were close.
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Indeed we do dance oompa, when we're not tending to our igloos of course.
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Saw best jw friend at club...didn't shun me
by tall penguin inback in may i went to a nightclub and ended up seeing one my best jw friends, a friend who refused to say goodbye when i was in the process of disassociating because he was so upset with me.
we'd known each other since we were kids.
our moms were close.
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tall penguin
Aww thanks BFD.
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Saw best jw friend at club...didn't shun me
by tall penguin inback in may i went to a nightclub and ended up seeing one my best jw friends, a friend who refused to say goodbye when i was in the process of disassociating because he was so upset with me.
we'd known each other since we were kids.
our moms were close.
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tall penguin
Back in May I went to a nightclub and ended up seeing one my best jw friends, a friend who refused to say goodbye when I was in the process of disassociating because he was so upset with me. We'd known each other since we were kids. Our moms were close. And before I left we were good buddies. His wedding was the last jw event I attended.
So that night at the club, our eyes met. He turned the other way. By the end of the night he'd worked his way closer to me on the dance floor but still he wouldn't talk to me. As he was leaving that night he smiled at me. I smiled back.
Well, last night I was at the same club and again he turns up. We ended up once more dancing close on the dance floor. This time he said hello. And then said, "This is now two times we've met up here. It can't be coincidence." I grabbed him and hugged him. He hugged me back. We chatted about what's new in our lives, work, family, etc. Then I had to leave and hugged him again. He said it was great to see me. I'm sure we'll meet again.
Life's funny.
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We need to have another party!
by changeling inmy last one was fancy and pretty, the social event of the season.
i'm in the mood for something a little different tonight.. when i was a popular witness (before being a witness wore me down and my kids became teenagers and people starting judging us for being "liberal") we used to entertain a lot.
i miss that.. i'm a very social creature.
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tall penguin
Thanks for having me to your party changeling. Happy to be here. I'm off near the fireplace having a fine chat with coolhandluke, admiring his dreads and his other manly features. :)
I'm enjoying the hummus. Did you make it yourself?
tall penguin